Delete your account asap, you all are menaces to the children out here. Saying that a 16yo dating a 19yo is normal is plain delusional. A 3 year gap including minors is just absolutely disgusting and severely morally wrong. The mentality difference between a 16yo and a 19yo is enormous, same goes for 2 children/teens dating with a 3 year gap. Now don't say "oh but only maturity matters", you don't know anything about maturity. Maturity isn't all about emotions or physical appearence, it's also about life experience and ability to deal with stuff all by yourself. Thus said, your delusions should stop right now.